Links to Seward photos and videos from the cruise

6-4-08

And so arrives our last morning on the ship. I woke up early and was able to watch our approach in to Seward from the balcony. It was a foggy morning, so I was only able to get a glimpse of the snow capped peaks that surrounded us on all sides. Later, when the fog lifted some, we were able to see that Seward is in a gorgeous physical location. The town is very pleasant, too – we both liked Seward very much, and decided to try to have our next Alaska cruise be a Southbound, so we can start in Seward and maybe spend a couple days beforehand.

As we were coming in to Seward, I noticed a log floating by, which appeared to have a bird on each end. Then I noticed that one of the birds was moving about, but in a way I’d never seen a bird move before. Upon closer inspection, I realized that it was a sea otter floating on her back, and the moving bird was her feet. There she was in the middle of the shipping lane, with a cruise ship going by on one side and a bunch of fishing boats going by on the other, just idly floating, completely unconcerned. I didn’t have time to run in the cabin to get binocs or camera, so just watched her go by.

After we docked, I continued to sit on the balcony, as it was too early yet to go to breakfast. Lis was in bed reading. After several minutes, I noticed a log floating in my direction, but this time it only took me a moment to realize that this log was my otter pal again. I called for Lis, and because we weren’t moving, and the otter was moving very slowly, I was able to get camera and binocs this time. She floated right under us. I wasn’t able to get too close with the camera, as we don’t have that much of a zoom, but with the binoculars we were able to see her very close, and watch her fluff her fur, look around at the ship, and then settle in to what looked like a nap. We watched her for a long time, but eventually she roused herself and swam away, plus it was time for breakfast.

We had laid out our stuff the night before, so got dressed, packed our carry on bags with the last of our stuff (we packed our big bags last night and set them outside our door) and departed our lovely cabin for the last time. We had a lovely breakfast, as always, in La Veranda (we decided that our favorite meal was breakfast in La Veranda) and then waited in the Library for our group to be called for debarkation. Our group was the last group, and we used the restroom one last time after our group was called – and so ended up being the very last passengers off the ship. Lisa, from the social staff, said “We were wondering where the girls were, and thought maybe we should just keep you.” It was very cute.

In Seward we took the trolley shuttle to the Train Wreck, a little mall comprised of three old train cars. There we were able to store our bags with the Exit Glacier Guides folks for ten bucks. Thus unencumbered, we walked to the Alaska SeaLife Center to pass the time until lunch. It was very nice. For lunch we found an excellent restaurant called Yoly’s Bistro – I had a very good hamburger, and Lis had an excellent chicken curry with peanut sauce. Highly recommend this restaurant to anyone spending any time in Seward.

My brother and his wife, who live in Anchorage, had very kindly offered to come pick us up in Seward and take us to the B&B we were staying at in Anchorage. They picked us up after lunch, and we headed north. Along the way we stopped at Exit Glacier, and hiked up to it. It was very cool – apparently one of the few hike-up-to-it glaciers around. The scenery was spectacular, and the glacier impressive – we could hear it making little sounds, and hear the melt water that was running underneath it.

We continued the drive to Anchorage, which has some of the most amazing scenery. We were hoping to see some moose along the way, as they are apparently often spotted at various points, but were out of luck (though we did see tons of moose droppings at the glacier). We stopped for dinner at the Double Musky, a restaurant located near the Alyeska Resort. When you walk in, it just looks like any other rural tavern you’ve ever been in, but it’s actually a 5 star restaurant, and the food was excellent and the portions huge. I just had an appetizer, and it was more than enough food. Then we drove through the resort, then went to my brother’s house for a bit and met their dog, and then it was time to head to the B&B.

We were staying at the Big Bear Bed & Breakfast in Anchorage. My brother was worried about its location (apparently not in the best part of town), but we decided to risk it (both of us having lived in dicey parts of towns before), and it wasn’t bad – though as my brother drove away there were about a million police car sirens going off somewhere near by. I asked him the next day if he had found that comforting – his wife said they had considered calling us to make sure we were ok. But no other incidents and we had a pretty good night’s sleep.

The B&B was a true B&B – a regular home, not an inn or hotel. It was full to overflowing with all sorts of Alaska bric-a-brac – bear skins and ivories and native art and pelts and figurines and antlers and such. At first I almost recoiled, I found it so over-stimulating. But once I adjusted it was really quite fascinating, like being in a museum. Every item had some sort of story, most close to the family – the two bear skins had been shot by the innkeeper’s father and grandfather, the oil paintings of natives and locals had been done by her mother, etc. And the breakfast was amazingly excellent. But I’m not sure it was the best choice at the end of a vacation, when you’re tired and want to get home, and socializing with even more people you don’t know starts to feel like a real chore indeed.

The next day my brother and his wife picked us up to take us to lunch and then the airport for our 2pm flight. We ate at the Sourdough Mining Company, and had another very good meal – we ate as well or better off the boat in Seward and Anchorage as we did on the boat, thanks in part of course to our excellent local tour guides. My brother and his wife were wonderful hosts, showing us the sights and taking us to great dining establishments, plus buying us a National Geographic Book about Alaska and a book of the Double Musky recipes – they were really great, and it was great seeing them. And then it was time to board our flight and come home.

(Note to future Alaska travelers: don’t try to load stuff up in a cooler with ice, tape it up, and check it as baggage – they will make you dump the ice out. Can’t tell you how many people we saw dumping ice out of coolers at the curb, and then sending their salmon steaks or reindeer sausage through sans cooling.)

Not much of a blog post here – just wanted to post a link to the photos we took of the ship itself. Enjoy.

On May 27 we will be embarking on the Regent Seven Seas Mariner for an 8-night cruise from Vancouver BC to Seward(Anchorage) Alaska.  We’ll be stopping in Victoria (one of our favorite towns in the whole world), Ketchikan, Juneau, Skagway and Sitka.

My plan is to post regularly from the ship (hopefully daily, but we’ll see).  So stay tuned for our Virtual Cruise!

If you have a web browser on your cell phone and you need to find a bathroom, go to http://www.mizpee.com/ and enter your address.  It will give you the address(es) of the nearest bathroom(s), including a rating and whether or not a purchase is required.  There is also a mizpee in Europe at http://www.mizpee.eu/

One of the things I really DON’T like about traveling is listening to my next door neighbors.  I don’t want to hear them talk, I don’t want to hear their phone ring, and I REALLY don’t want to hear their tv.  I wrote an earlier post on hotels that don’t have tvs, which is my preference, but I recently read an excellent article in the New York Times called “Blessed Silence is the Newest Amenity”.  According to the writer, a chain called AmericInn is as obsessed as I think hotels should be with providing quiet rooms.  According to the Times article, last September, “the fast-growing chain began advertising a new sleeping amenity called SoundGuard at its 213 hotels. It’s not an electronic gadget or a bedding accessory, but a construction material. Instead of wood-frame construction, the hotel uses masonry blocks filled with sound-deadening foam, in addition to drywall that is 5/8-inch thick, instead of ½-inch, to muffle noise.”  AmericInn is also putting their tvs on tables rather than mounting them on walls.  Yay to that!  I’ve never figured out why the majority of hotels elect to put the tvs in one room right against the beds in the next room.  Oh, if only I was in charge.  Anyway, the Times article has lots of other interesting information about Sound Transmission Class Tests and tips on how to possibly get a quieter room.  If you’re a quiet freak like me, you might enjoy the article.

VivaAerobus is a Mexican low-cost airline that’s been serving points in Mexico from Austin, Texas, since last year. It has announced new daily nonstop service from Austin to Cancun or Monterrey, beginning May 1, with fares starting at $9.99 each way. Note that these fares require a 5 week advance purchase.  See this SmarterTravel article for more info.

SmarterTravel.com has posted a nifty little quiz entitled “Are you a smarter cruiser?” which, as you might guess, lets you test your “cruise travel savvy.” It’s a quick little test (10 questions plus a bonus), plus the answer review section provides some very good information.
They also have a handy little section called Tip of the Day, which is where I found this article about shore excursions. The article has lots of good info, plus the people in the picture totally look like two women! Check it out!

By Beth A. Allen, Attorney at Law
and Kerry N. Lear

Why Plan

If your partner ends up in a hospital while the two of you are in Greece, will you be allowed to be in her room with her? If you get ill in Mexico and are not well enough to make your own medical decisions, will your partner be allowed to make decisions for you?

It is important for everyone to plan for incapacity and death, but it is often even more important for lesbians and gay men to make sure their documents are in order as the default laws and policies often do not adequately protect our families. You can increase the chances that you could answer “yes” to questions similar to the ones posed above by having the appropriate documents in place before you travel and taking copies with you when you go.

Before You Leave

Perhaps the most important document to have in place before you travel is an Advance Directive. In this document you can appoint a health care representative to make medical decisions for you if you are unable to make the decisions for yourself. You can also give explicit instructions to health care providers about what kind of care you do and do not want in certain situations.

It is also a good idea to make sure that your finances would be taken care of should you become incapacitated or die. A Durable Power of Attorney will allow you to appoint someone to control your finances should you become incapacitated. This person would be able to access bank accounts, pay bills, and send you additional money, if necessary. Often, people who travel with their partner will draft the Durable Power of Attorney so that someone in the States could act if both you and your partner are incapacitated.

It is unlikely that you will die while traveling, but nonetheless, you should have a Will (and possibly a Trust) to ensure that in the event of your death, your property goes to the people that you choose as opposed to the people that the State says are your closest relatives. Additionally, you should make sure that you have chosen beneficiaries for any accounts that allow you to do so. To provide yourself more reassurance, consider having a Disposal of Remains drafted. This document sets out who controls post-death decisions concerning issues such as burial or cremation, specifies your wishes concerning your remains, and can go a long way towards avoiding a family battle while coping with your grief in a foreign country.

It can be helpful to hire an attorney to assist you in preparing these documents as often there are specific requirements of what the documents must contain and how they should be phrased. It is a good idea to seek out an attorney who is familiar with the special planning needs of lesbians and gay men.

What to Take With You

Some of the documents you create may not be of much use to you if you do not have them with you. You should definitely take copies of your Advance Directive and your Durable Power of Attorney with you when you travel. We recommend that you keep a copy of these documents on your person, as well as a copy at your hotel, at all times. Some travelers have these documents printed on small plastic coated cards for ease of carrying them.

If your relationship is recognized by your home state and you have a certificate of your Domestic Partnership/ Marriage/ Civil Union you should also consider taking a copy of that with you. Even if the place to which you are traveling will not specifically honor that recognition, it can only improve your chances of successfully arguing that you should be treated as a legitimate couple. In the same vein, if you have a contractual Domestic Partnership Agreement, it would be a good idea to take a copy of that. Last but not least, you should take the phone number of your attorney with you so that you can easily contact her should any sort of problem arise.

If You Have Children

If you have children, there are some additional documents that you will need to think about. If possible, you should make sure that you have completed the adoption of any children before you travel so that the child is legally related to both parents. You should also make sure that you have guardianships set up for your children. If your children are traveling with you, it will be necessary to take a certified copy of the judgment of adoption with you so that you will have proof of your legal relationship should anyone call it into question. Additionally, consider taking copies of your child’s health records if your child is traveling with you.

The Bottom Line

While it may not be very much fun to plan for the worst, it could end up saving you a lot of heartache in the event something does go wrong while you are traveling. So remember to plan appropriately before you leave and to travel with the necessary documents. Then put up your feet, sip a cool drink and watch the porpoises dance by the side of the ship, secure in the knowledge that you are prepared for you and your family’s future.

About the Authors

Beth Allen is a Partner and Kerry Lear is a Law Clerk at Allen² Law, LLC in Portland, Oregon. Allen² Law provides legal counsel in the family law and estate planning fields in Oregon and Washington. Whether it is drafting partnership agreements, wills, or any of the documents needed to provide long term security; assisting in adoption, surrogacy, sperm donor, or unique custody agreements; or being a strong and reasonable advocate when relationships dissolve, the attorneys of Allen² Law can provide the knowledgeable, supportive, and compassionate services that are right for you and your family.

The readers of Conde Nast Traveler voted Regent Seven Seas the “Best Small-Ship Cruise Line.” for 2007. We’re partial to Regent ourselves, so we thought we’d let you know.

Another cruise line we love, Crystal, was voted “Best Large-Ship Cruise Line” for the 14th year in a row!Š

Peter Deilmann Cruises is expanding the no-smoking restrictions on its European river fleet to include all areas inside the vessels beginning in 2008. The policy will become effective at the start of the river cruise season in March 2008. Deilmann, which operates a fleet of nine river vessels, first extended the smoke-free areas on its ships in 2005 to include all cabins and corridors along with its no-smoking policy in the restaurants. Now smoking will only be permitted on the open decks.

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